1.we are tired,because we always hesitate between persistence and give up,walking forth and back.we feel bored just because we have good memories,we remember the things we should remember and never forget those we shouldn’t remember.when we feel miserable,just because we want to gain too much.when we take everything seriously,we must be unhappy.it is not because we owe so little,but we take too much personally.
我們之所以會心累，就是常常徘徊在堅持和放棄之間，舉棋不定。我們之所以會煩惱，就是記性太好，該記的，不該記的都會留在記憶里。我們之所以會痛苦，就是追求的太多。我們之所以不快樂，就是計較的太多，不是我們擁有的太少，而是我們計較的太多。
2.ten characteristics of the men attract to the women: 1,true 2,profound 3,tolerant 4,brave 5,good manner 6,quick-witted 7,humour 8,keeping forging ahead 9,romantic 10,take a risk.ten characteristics of the women attract to the men:1,gentle 2,wisdom and caring 3,showing consideration for him 4,self restraint 5,hazy 6,little movement 7,being good at doing housework 8,perfect skin 9,sexy wearing 10,warm and fragrant
男人吸引女人的10個特質:1.真實 2.深刻 3.胸懷 4.敢為 5.風度 6.機靈 7.幽默 8.進取 9.浪漫 10.冒險.女人吸引男人的10個特點:1.溫柔 2.知性 3.體貼 4.涵養 5.朦朧 6.小動作 7.勤於家事 8.膚白 9.性感著裝 10.香氛
3.the true love is accept,not put up with;it is support,not submit;it is express sympathy for the other,not call to account;the true love,you should say thank you and sorry.showing consideration for the other and making allowances for the other.you should admit your fault and correct that.the true love is more than staring at each other,but looking at the same direction.actually,love does not hunt for a perfect one,but admire a non-perfect one with admiring eyes.
真正的愛，是接受，不是忍受;是支持，不是支配;是慰問，不是質問;真正的愛，要道謝也要道歉。要體貼，也要體諒。要認錯，也好改錯;真正的愛，不是彼此凝視，而是共同沿著同一方向望去。其實，愛不是尋找一個完美的人。而是，要學會用完美的眼光，欣賞一個並不完美的人。
4.there are always such people there around us,you can see him happy the whole day,acting like a child,everybody admires him:in fact,you know what? he cried one second before,but smiled again in front of the others.actually they have no ability to be alone.when it darks,he sits in front of the window and think about everything that make him confused and sad.they like the sunflowers:on one side,facing the sun,they happy all day;however,on the other side,you can’t see the sadness in the shadow.
身邊總有些人，你看見他整天都開心，率真得像個小孩，人人都羨慕他;其實，你哪裡知道：前一秒人後還傷心地流著淚的他，後一秒人前即刻洋溢燦爛笑容。他們其實沒有能力獨處，夜深人靜時，總坐在窗前對著夜空冥想失意的苦楚。他們就像向日葵，向著太陽的正面永遠明媚鮮亮，在照不到的背面卻將悲傷深藏。
5.in the life.some people come and go,the others leave you and then come back.some are near to you,the others are far away from you.some people pass you,but some people go with you.maybe you meet with each at the end of two roads,you keep each other for company and then say goodbye at the next intersaction.whatever,no one can avoid the sensitive feeling of falling apart.the friends who are far away from me,maybe we can’t even say hello to each other,but thank you all the same that we had the chance to go hand in hand.
生命中，有些人來了又去，有些人去而復返，有些人近在咫尺，有些人遠在天涯，有些人擦身而過，有些人一路同行。或許在某兩條路的盡頭相遇，結伴同行了一段路程，又在下一個分岔路口道別。無論如何，終免不了曲終人散的傷感。遠在天涯的朋友：或許已是遙遠得無法問候，但還是謝謝您曾經的結伴同行。
6.love is simple,because everyone can say:”i love you,and i will pay everything for you!”,love is difficult,because few people keep theirs’promise.if you really love a person,love still exists even though you refuse to make a commitment;if you don’t love a people at all,you can betray at any time even if you swear you love.
愛情很簡單，因為每個人都會說：“我愛你，會為你付出一切!”，愛情很難，因為沒有多少人做到了他的承諾。 如果真心愛一個人，不承諾也會去愛;如果不愛一個人，曾經承諾也會背叛。
7.what is your most regrettable for? one magazine surveys the old people of over sixty all over the world: the first one,75 percent of them regret that they didn’t work hard when they were young,so it’s good for nothing now.the second one:70 percent of them regret choosing the wrong poision when they were young.the third one;62 percent of them regret educationing theirs’children in the wrong way.the fourth one:57 percent of them regret that they didn’t cherish theirs’mate.the fifth one:49 percent of them regret that they didn’t keep in good health.
【你最後悔什麼】某雜誌對全國60歲以上的老人抽樣調查：第一名：75%的人後悔年輕時努力不夠，導致一事無成。第二名：70%的人後悔在年輕的時候選錯了職業。第三名：62%的人後悔對子女教育不當。第四名：57%的人後悔沒有好好珍惜自己的伴侶。第五名：49%的人後悔沒有善待自己的身體。
8.ten schemings for being human:1,don’t be so innocent,try to disguise yourself a little.2,you should pave a way for yourself at any time.3,you can’t say”absolutely”,or you can’t have your own business.4,you can be mature but not be worldly-wise.5,have right options for this world,be open-minded.6,knowing the ways of being circle or square,never troule troubles before trouble troubles you.7,don’t lose two presents:good manner and gifts.8,you live in this world,be aware of being framed up by your friends.9,you are allowed to be snobbish occasionally,hunting for the reliable partner.10,being a human regardless of your strong self-respect.
【做人十心機】⒈做人不能太單純 適度偽裝自己 ⒉凡事留餘地 要留退路 ⒊話不說絕 口無遮攔難成大事 ⒋成熟而不世故 ⒌心態好 想得開活得不累 ⒍懂方圓之道：沒事不惹事，來事不怕事 ⒎不可少二禮:禮儀與禮物 ⒏人在江湖飄 防挨朋友刀 ⒐偶爾”勢利眼” 尋可靠夥伴 ⒑放下面子來做人。
9.on your way of life,there are always people come and go,some people leave you continuously.when the new name becomes the old name,and the old one is gradually blurring,then that is the end of obe story and the beginning of another story.in the course of meeting and leaving,we finally understand:the people arould us only accompany us for one station,let alone the whole life;those who can go with us for the whole life are ours’name and the touching comes from those clear or vague names.
人生旅途中，總有人不斷地走來，有人不斷地離去。當新的名字變成老的名字，當老的名字漸漸模糊，又是一個故事的結束和另一個故事的開始。在不斷的相遇和錯開中，終於明白：身邊的人只能陪著自己走過或近或遠的一程，而不能伴自己一生;陪伴一生的是自己的名字和那些或清晰或模糊的名字所帶來的感動。
10.be clever from now on ,don’t ask the other whether miss and love you or not ? if they miss or love you,they can say it out,but if you ask so,they will be arrogant and pay no attention to you.don’t take some people or some things so seriously.face them calmly and let everything go its own way.because this is the world we live in,you can be worthless in front of the things that you care too much.
從現在開始，聰明一點，不要問別人想不想你，愛不愛你?若是要想你或者愛你自然會對你說，但是從你的嘴裡說出來，別人會很驕傲和不在乎你。再也不要太在意一些人，太在乎一些事，順其自然以最佳心態面對，因為這個世界就是這樣：往往在最在乎的事物面前，我們最沒有價值。